I find it hard to be nice in the city rural areas, unless you are extremely needy and they will take it...without question asked.
I'm more part of my community here in Ephrata and Wenatchee areas. I am part of 3338 Eagles of Ephrata. I have secreted sister, she doesn’t talk to me, in-fact she doesn't like me at all.
She bases her opinion on me with in two weeks of me starting there while back. She never been to my house, she never took time to get to know me. All she based her opinion on is the outside, my appearance and what I was wearing.
I like to work on cars; I prune my own trees (if I can.)...the point is. From Friday and Sunday, it's my kick back days or when I'm on vacation. I don't have to get all dressy. Or some would say look like well dress woman.
Well any ways she was belittling me to a tee, one comment that really hurt was. “If you say that you work where you do...why you can’t at least dress the part, For one your hair is all dried, your nails are as dirty as mechanics, point blankly sweetie I dought it. No wonder you don't have man, you look like a dyke or wanna be biker *itch."
I go to the legion just to play darts or pool and hang out with the elder in the society. Not to gain recognitions as a Barbie Doll to get hit on. She comes in on the weekend with a silk shirt nice skirt or dress pants. You can smell her all the way in France sometimes. Sometime she looks like a million dollars, with ugly attitude.
Well she my secret sister and she needed cloths for her little girl, because she just lost her job. I went out and got her daughter some cloths and give her some of my little girl cloths that doesn't fit her any more. That made me feels so good, especially when I caught her little girl wearing my daughter's old cloths. She made the comment," My secret sister knows how to shop and she must be rich, dam look at these brand names items. I never buy or have the money too." A big ass smile comes on my face.
One day my daughter came home, said that her daughter bike tire is flat and it's rusty and all. Her mother had to throw it out. Couple weekends later, that little got my daughter’s old bike that was in good condition; just she grew out of it. My daughter is nine and her daughter is Five. I got her matching protective gear. Plus baby chair for her dolly. "Wow oh my goodness, I can't believe it my secret sister spent like 200.00 on my kid." She said. Well actually it was 75.00 just my daughter took real good care of her bike. The bike it self 4 years old was only 45 or 50. Just I clean it up and polish it.
Only reason I'm doing it, I like the way she smile, her little girl. All the little comment my secret sister is saying. She won't know who I am until January First. Then I get New sister but the point is...I just can't wait to see her face, how it going to make her feel so doltish and guilty for all the belittling she has done to me (I hope). I only buy her kid stuff not her. For she's a *itch and it makes me feel so good inside only too see that little smile on her daughter’s face. I could care less about her mother. So I really think people do things to make them feel good inside or just to see you smile as well as your daughter. I frankly don’t know you, you sound like sweetheart and how your husband makes you out to be and how wonder your kids are. So just let them feel good within and let them see the sweetness within you with a smile of a grand Thank You.
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Date: 2004-04-24 05:09 am (UTC)I find it hard to be nice in the city rural areas, unless you are extremely needy and they will take it...without question asked.
I'm more part of my community here in Ephrata and Wenatchee areas. I am part of 3338 Eagles of Ephrata. I have secreted sister, she doesn’t talk to me, in-fact she doesn't like me at all.
She bases her opinion on me with in two weeks of me starting there while back. She never been to my house, she never took time to get to know me. All she based her opinion on is the outside, my appearance and what I was wearing.
I like to work on cars; I prune my own trees (if I can.)...the point is. From Friday and Sunday, it's my kick back days or when I'm on vacation. I don't have to get all dressy. Or some would say look like well dress woman.
Well any ways she was belittling me to a tee, one comment that really hurt was. “If you say that you work where you do...why you can’t at least dress the part, For one your hair is all dried, your nails are as dirty as mechanics, point blankly sweetie I dought it. No wonder you don't have man, you look like a dyke or wanna be biker *itch."
I go to the legion just to play darts or pool and hang out with the elder in the society. Not to gain recognitions as a Barbie Doll to get hit on. She comes in on the weekend with a silk shirt nice skirt or dress pants. You can smell her all the way in France sometimes. Sometime she looks like a million dollars, with ugly attitude.
Well she my secret sister and she needed cloths for her little girl, because she just lost her job. I went out and got her daughter some cloths and give her some of my little girl cloths that doesn't fit her any more. That made me feels so good, especially when I caught her little girl wearing my daughter's old cloths. She made the comment," My secret sister knows how to shop and she must be rich, dam look at these brand names items. I never buy or have the money too." A big ass smile comes on my face.
One day my daughter came home, said that her daughter bike tire is flat and it's rusty and all. Her mother had to throw it out. Couple weekends later, that little got my daughter’s old bike that was in good condition; just she grew out of it. My daughter is nine and her daughter is Five. I got her matching protective gear. Plus baby chair for her dolly. "Wow oh my goodness, I can't believe it my secret sister spent like 200.00 on my kid." She said. Well actually it was 75.00 just my daughter took real good care of her bike. The bike it self 4 years old was only 45 or 50. Just I clean it up and polish it.
Only reason I'm doing it, I like the way she smile, her little girl. All the little comment my secret sister is saying. She won't know who I am until January First. Then I get New sister but the point is...I just can't wait to see her face, how it going to make her feel so doltish and guilty for all the belittling she has done to me (I hope). I only buy her kid stuff not her. For she's a *itch and it makes me feel so good inside only too see that little smile on her daughter’s face. I could care less about her mother. So I really think people do things to make them feel good inside or just to see you smile as well as your daughter. I frankly don’t know you, you sound like sweetheart and how your husband makes you out to be and how wonder your kids are. So just let them feel good within and let them see the sweetness within you with a smile of a grand Thank You.
Thank you for sharing thou.